Am I too fat to......

Hey Im a realist. I don't expect my knight in shining armor to rescue me, or that Brad Pitt has suddenly taken a likeing to the chubier gals. I just can't seem to understand why us chubby girls pickin's are so slim in the dating game. Either its some loser who has no job( and no desire to get one) who prays on Chubbies because of their perceived lack of self esteem or its some weirdo with a fat fetish. Hey I know I am no Hiedi Klum and I don't expect to land some rich african singer. But can a girl just find a nice, semi attractive, stable and SANE man? One that does not start his emails with: Hey Hyna, or Sexy,and doesn't ask if you are into bondage, who doesn't laugh when you send a full body picture and sees more than my rolls. Besides I have much more to offer than just the way I look. Is that all thats important to a man? Are smarts, capability, achievements( not bikini model of the year) personality, merit/morals, emotional stability, humor, logic, resposiabity and love important at all? Was every man in America mother a size 0 super model? And if not(and I assume it is not), why is it easy to see her worth and not mine? Wasn't your mother a beautiful woman? Do other chubby girls out there feel the same way. Is it hard for you to find a man who wants to see you for more than your waist measurement? These are some of the questions I want to answer on this blog. Men and women weigh in. Does this seem accurate to you?